I work with couples on a variety of life issues and support them in their personal growth and self-awareness. Each person brings into the relationship their own belief systems, which are learned; and that means they can be changed. We work together to find new ways of thinking about the relationship and work out a number of issues such as:
Shared Vision:
Developing a shared vision creates a common investment within a partnership. A couple commits to improving their union and alliance by focusing their resources to develop a shared vision and understanding. Together we will work on that shared vision to build a trusting and successful relationship.
Open Communication:
Effective communication skills take practice, effort and commitment. It is hard to express your thoughts, feelings and desires in an appropriate and loving way. It is equally difficult to listen to your partner’s needs, wants and wishes in an open and nonjudgmental manner. I help couples develop their communication styles and work through solutions that embrace a healthy and supportive relationship.
Sex & Intimacy:
Sex and intimacy in a relationship are closely associated with feelings of respect, value and safety. These feelings can be greatly impacted by stress, life transitions and misunderstandings. Effective communication and a shared vision of commitment helps couples reestablish sex and intimacy.
Family & In-Laws:
Getting along with In-Laws can be difficult for even the best relationships. Age, culture and political differences can interfere with communications and understanding. I help couples develop a holistic family by learning to respect and understand each others differences, and to develop a language of mutual understanding. We don’t get to pick our families so it is important to focus on the strengths of each family member.
Conflict Resolution:
Conflict resolution is about moving beyond the fighting, yelling and unresolved problems. Couples that learn open and effective communication skills that involve joint decision making and reflective listening skills can deal with conflict and find solutions. I help couples identify and understand their dysfunctional old patterns and to learn new patterns and behaviors that build functional, healthy relationships.
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